THE DOWN LOW OR THE LOW DOWN?Posted on October 10th, 2012 18 comments
THIS IS SCARY!
Michael, this women is scary….She wanted information on my ex….Turned on me…Many feel it is jealousy…
Posted by Rosa Torres-Sadler on her Google Plus account about me.
I don’t mean to dwell on this. I have to make a decision about the box at the top of this site and I hope to do that by tomorrow.
I have admitted to making a huge mistake. I assumed her book, “Abuse Hidden Behind the Badge” was, at a minimum, sensible. It is not. There’s a contradiction on every other page. And of course I was interested in the book because of her ex – he is the Lancaster Police Chief and the book has direct relevance as to whether he should be. “Is you ex-husband Keith Sadler?” was my first question in my first phone call to her. She knew the source of my interest – it’s obvious. And she came flying on this site to comment under every story I wrote about the police and their failure to solve murders and crimes that really had nothing to do with her and the book and the allegations of domestic violence.
I have not a clue why I would be jealous of her and I think the jealousy is actually on her side. I absolutely think she wants Sadler fired. He has a wife and a new baby and a new cushy, apparently happy life in Lancaster. Her jumping on my every story involving the police proves that point clearly.
And I sure as hell don’t appreciate being called “scary.” One more time, I’ve been doing this for nine years – I know the mayor, the District Attorney and I met Sadler in person – and I don’t think one of them would say I pose a threat to anyone except possibly through my writing.
She, might be considered “scary” however! . On her book selling site, Torres Publishing, she has a video of a TV interview she did on Latino Motion with Bert Lopez in which she states:
“No one has the right to put their hands on you. Period.”
I have published excerpts from the book where she somewhat proudly states she punched her sister-in-law “dead in the face” and where she says she threw a glass of wine and then repeated slapped Sadler across the face after they were separated and she claimed to be in fear of him.
I didn‘t “turn” on her. I read the book – as well as I could – through the spelling and grammatical errors in almost every paragraph on almost every page of the book.
I posted this paragraph from the book about the second abusive man in the comments section but I’ll move it here as well:
My relationship with Damien was kind of strained and we were still physical. Damien was a freak! He enjoyed having anal sex; this is the only kind of sex he wanted to have. Wow, he even showed me certain types(sic) pornography on his State Police Laptop. I thought to myself, “He is a State Trooper and the law. What do I know? I felt in my gut something was just not right, but I ignored it. I always wondered if he was on the Down Low?
I think anyone over the age of 16 knows a State Trooper should not have any type of pornography on their laptop! Period! And she’d been married to a high-ranking policeman for almost 20 years and didn’t know that a State Trooper should not have pornography on his laptop?
I absolutely will finish this tomorrow. I did note in the comments that there are no closing quotation marks in the above paragraph and the capitalization is as it appears in the book.
18 responses to “THE DOWN LOW OR THE LOW DOWN?”
Just dump her off your site and be done with it.
The bottom line – if Sadler hit her and I believe he did – he should not be the police chief. I’m working on it, FWIW! I will not mention her again after tomorrow – that is absolutely, positively the truth! I swear!
Giggles October 10th, 2012 at 19:58
She may have been beaten within an inch of her life, no one really knows. The problem with her is that her allegations surface many, many years later. That makes her appear like she is attention-seeking. What would make this more believeable is if the authorities conducted an investigation and removed him from policing, then she writes her book telling her story. The other problem is that her own children say she is exaggerating or lying. That just doesn’t look good. And a state trooper beat her too? BOLOGNA I say! I complained about a state trooper in the 80′s to the state police. He was rude to me and threatened me with more tickets if I didn’t stop arguing with him (I ran a stop sign, he said). They did an investigation and I met with one of the state police supervisors to tell my side of the story. They even sent me a letter as to what happened after their investigation – he was counseled. If she was abused by a state trooper all she had to do is call in a complaint. They are this state’s best and most professional organization (as a whole). They would never “cover up” abuse, especially domestic violence. That’s why I believe she is a liar. It is good to finally see you dropping her like a bad habit. There are far more important issues out there, like the CC. Did you notice they now have taken over two levels of taxpayer funded parking in the attached garage. Its valley parking. Maybe you can find out if the CC is paying for those spaces. If not, its yet another abuse by the CC.
Giggles – your comment is coming from a proxy server. Please resend normally.
Giggles October 10th, 2012 at 22:40
It wasn’t a proxy server, it was a cell phone.
I’ll approve it, Giggles. Hmmm…
P.S. Giggles – I disagree with you about the State Police – but I’ll argue with you tomorrow – going to bed now!
Rosa is now announcing this on all her “social media” sites:
No prayers will help this blogger.
Yep, I didn’t like her book so I am a sister who turned on a sister, I am no longer a warrior , I believe in domestic violence and think all men should hit women! I am obviously evil.
I’m coming very close to calling her a complete and total whack job! Sigh…I’m trying to maintain some sense of sanity through all of this!
anonymous2 October 11th, 2012 at 11:03
Don’t fight it, Becky. Sanity is over-rated.
Besides, when craziness makes you crazy it is a good sign!
Its a shame as I believe she was subjected to domestic violence but she is coming over as a Whack job.
Olga and Erma, are so much more deserving of that space.Thank goodness!!! you’ve come to your senses.Excellent work Becky…
Thanks! I feel free – almost giddy – like a huge load has been lifted from my sholders! I shall not speak of her again unless something significant and newsworthy comes up! Free at last!
galty – thanks! Well said and I agree totally!
anonymous2 – LOL! I’m not sure how to take your comment ( ) but I am leaving/ignoring the craziness as of this moment. If If I ever need a wake up call I’ll go to her…oops….nevermind! No, I won’t!
I am taking a break this afternoon to celebrate! Have mercy – the things you never see coming in life. Donuts saw it, I didn’t!
carol power October 11th, 2012 at 19:20
Becky I like your site because you are a truth seeker! If you found out that things were not adding up with whats her name …you have every right to dismiss her. Do not beat your self up because we need more reporters like you who are not afraid to stand up for coverups and victims rights! When it comes down to it , if I needed help your site is one of the first sites I’d go to.
Yes, that is the problem wack jobs have, they become pretty apparent to the rest of the world.
So, Becky, apologies to Keith Sadler for believing his mentally unstable ex? Or will you just stay happy believing the worst thing about anyone in a position of legitimate authority?
Actually, we need unbiased reporters who don’t fall hook, line and sinker for every story they want to be true.
Dee, did you read galty’s comment? Enough said.
Oh, and tell that unbiased reporters thing to LNP – they’re involved in a little thing known as the convention center!