*** BREAKING NEWS *** REVENGE, REALITY & DOMESTIC VIOLENCE – 2Posted on October 2nd, 2012 18 comments
*** BREAKING NEWS ***
The Lancaster Police are looking for this man, Manuel Luis Torres, 33-years-of-age, for allegedly trying to kill his ex-girlfriend. He is described as being light skinned, approx. 5’11” tall, approx. 150 lbs. with black hair and brown eyes.
Anyone with information is urged to call Lancaster City Police at (717) 735-3300 or Lancaster City-County Crime Stoppers at 1-800-322-1913. You can also click the Submit a Tip button on our website, www.lancasterpolice.com, or Text a Tip to Crime Stoppers by texting LANCS plus your message to 847411. Tipsters may remain anonymous and do not have to give their names.
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IN THE LIFE…
I left and I moved to Bensalem, PA, No one knew me there and I was no longer in the Philadelphia area where Mark had a lot of power. I will tell you exactly how much power Mark had. One night I was suppose(sic) to have met Yeni at the club and I was not sure, but I thought I saw Mark and he was not alone. I walked up on him and there he was with Dee and I said, “So this is what you left home for?” Before I knew it, he had the bouncer grab me and I said, “Look, just let me go, I am going and I need to get my purse off the bar.” As I walked back to the bar and gathered my belongings, I noticed I still had a full glass of wine and with this, I grabbed the glass of wine walked(sic) up on Mark. He turned around and I threw the full glass of wine in his face. Boy was he ever pissed. I walked up to the coat girl and I was about to get my coat. Mark started calling me whore, bitch and all kinds of names and without thinking about it, I smacked him right across the face. This fool continued to call me these horrible names and each time a curse word would come out, I would hit him again.
Not realizing there were several women standing waiting to get into the nightclub when one said, “Hit that motherfucker again!” I finally said, “The great inspector Stun, you caused me to have retinal detachment and you do not give a damn what you did to me.” Mark realized many women were watching him and he walked away.
From pages 142 and 143 of “Abuse Hidden Behind the Badge,“ by Rosa Torres-Sadler, the ex-wife of Lancaster Police Chief Keith Sadler. “Mark” is Sadler.
Oh, my Lord! What a total mess! I will bring all of this to a conclusion this afternoon.
18 responses to “*** BREAKING NEWS *** REVENGE, REALITY & DOMESTIC VIOLENCE – 2”
It really is not possible to put a “(sic)” next to all the grammatical errors in these two short paragraphs!
As a side note to all of this nonsense, someone on Amazon.com is complaining under the book that she was not paid for her editing and her name as editor was also removed from the book. In fact, I received this email:
In the interest of truth and integrity, I urge you to read the reviews on Amazon regarding this book – specifically the recent comment from one who claims to be the editor(sic) Ms. Torres book.
I’m surprised anyone would claim to be the editor!
Publicly tossing a glass of wine in your husband’s face is a deal breaker for me. She could have been arrested for assault for doing that.
Yes, of course a man should NEVER hit a woman because the woman is certainly almost always smaller than a woman BUT I also believe that a woman has an inherent responsibility not to take advantage of that fact.
Edited to correct error: Yes, of course a man should NEVER hit a woman because the woman is certainly almost always smaller than a *man*
Dourresearch October 2nd, 2012 at 10:08
Well “mark” was calling her a whore because that is what she was/is. If you cheat on your husband repeatedly… Well do you have a better name? Oh yeah she was so afraid of him that she slapped him in public….she is just mad that he has a new life with another woman and left her. BTW… Rosas only income comes from Sadler…. Shame
My understanding is that she also receives Social Security Disability because of her eyesight.
Dourresearch October 2nd, 2012 at 11:08
Nope… She said that her only income is part if his pension… She is not getting ss
Becky, did you finish the book yet?
Do – she told me in a phone interview she receives SS.
Deon – Yes, I have finished the book. Did you have a question?
anonymous2 October 2nd, 2012 at 11:48
Correct me if I am wrong, but is it not abuse/assault for her to be “smacking him right across the face”?
This whole sick (should I say “sic”) tale is nothing but a mess. Like a Jerry Springer episode. And I hate reality TV.
It says he was with another women.It reads like he’d all ready caused her eye problem.Seems to me they both had issues.He should of never hit her to start and if he did it in front of children hes a rotten ass to ruin there spirit.Dourresearch you a family member of the chief.you make it sound like hes some kind of saint.Fact is hes an abuser who shouldnt be chief or a police officer.
Dourresearch October 2nd, 2012 at 11:57
Becky…. Believe me… Her only income is from Sadler. She even asked you about ss benefits on one of your posts. She lies so much she trips on her own lies:/
Becky, yes because the book says she turned down the ss.
Dourresearch, I was going to say that you seem very intimately connected to the pension but I see that someone else has already pointed out that you sound like a family member of the chiefs’. In your last post, you said, “Believe me” – and it’s clear you have 1st hand (angry?) knowledge of where the chief’s money go.
Yes, Rosa is one of the chief’s beneficiaries, and yes the JUDGE granted Rosa the pension – as happens in lengthy marriages followed by divorce. And yes for some that isn’t happy news. But that is the way life is in divorce. Few are happy.
I am aka cloud writer of the Behind the Blue Wall blog, and as such have talked with hundreds of women. Yes, Rosa is one them. I’ve been reading here objectively observing the mission and motives of the blogger and those commenting over several posts here. I probably will put together something on my blog about the controversies posted here soon.
Be safe and true. <3
Feel free to write me
Deon – Have you read her book cover to cover? I took down the links to your blogspot. I don’t allow certain links to blogspots that make me nervous (as in virus nervous)! You can do what you want on your blog! LOL! “Bloggers” are a hoot and a half!
Dourresearch October 2nd, 2012 at 12:51
No I am not a family member… I only know him as the chief.. That is all. I however read her book and her blogs because I was disturbed by the news. What I found is that she lies.. The part about ss is on her book . I dont care one way or another about Sadler. I do believe that she is not telling the truth , unless she can prove otherwise that is where I stand. BTW.. Her son denied ” witnessing any abuse”
Do – It took him hours to come back with that response and I don’t believe him. I believe there was abuse.
“I am aka cloud writer of the Behind the Blue Wall blog, and as such have talked with hundreds of women.”
I am aka Becky of the LIP News website, and as such have talked with hundreds of men.
Well do-… as the chief he seems ok but he couldn’t make it in phila so now lancaster is stuck with his past home abuse.He can’t solve the murder of 83 yr old Erma Kaylor, or plenty of others.He seems too good to ask for help from the DA who is more then willing to bring in outside help.There’s something about this guy, not just the abuse part but his character.What son who wants a relationship with his dad, or is so ashamed of this whole mess would admit hes an abuser.do-.. you sound jealous if you ask me.LoL Becky thanks for the laugh of the day….you/re a hoot!
Dourresearch October 2nd, 2012 at 16:11
Its time… Whether Sadler is a good chief or not is debatable and because he is a public servant it is also appropiate to discuss. What I have a problem with is the inconsistencies in her story. When everything came out I was concerned and bought her book right away… But then things began to look unclear. Btw.. So I guess her son denied the abuse because he wanted a relationship with his Stepdad… So I guess that was more important to him that his relationship with HIS mom because Im sure she is not happy about that. That doesn’t make sense. Anyway… Im done with this. And what am I jealous about…. Rosa’s horrific book..or is it her great career as a “blogger” oh no wait Im jelous of her looks… Oh no I got it… I wish I can stay home and collect a check every month and write about my ex all day instead of getting up and using the degree I worked for to support myself and my boys:) you got me!!!!!